Burial of the Vera Beauty college girl raped, killed, hand and legs chopped off by a man she rejected. |
I has been by concern and it is still my concern on the number of Uxoricide experienced in Kenya. Uxoricide is derived from.two Latin words uxor meaning "wife" and -cide, meaning "to cut, to kill" . It means termination of life of a wife or a romantic partner.
I have failed to understand what is causing all these deaths.
Most deaths have been attributed to love affairs gone sour but does it mean if love ends there must be comission of crime.
Somebody you have been in a relationship with, somebody you have helped in the time of need, somebody who has helped you put off "fire" and somebody who has given you company for a period of time, then you take a knife, machete, struggulation rope or a gunny bag to end her life, How? Why? For what?
It pain me to see young girls lose life in the hands of their boyfriends. I am left wondering what might be the cause of all these killing, Is it a demon sent to Kenya, is it that people are over investing in their partners, peer pressure or it's a matter of multiple partners.
For the last few years there has been
heartless murder of female university students all because of love. University of Nairobi School of Journalism master’s student Mercy Keino in 2011 to 2019 brutal killing of Ms Ivy Wangechi, a sixth-year medical student at Moi University.
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Carol Ngumbu, 21
Student at Kenya Medical Training College, Karen Campus. Her body was found alongside that of IEBC ICT manager Chris Msando days after the duo went missing.
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Faith Chepkirui
Chepkirui, a first-year student at Kaiboi Technical Training Institute, was stabbed three times by her boyfriend Mathew Kiptoo Yego, a second-year student at the same institution.
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Christine Maonga
In March 2019 , graduate student and high school teacher Christine Maonga was reportedly shot by her lover at her house in Navakholo in Kakamega County after he found out that Christine had abandoned him for another man.
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Vennah Kemunto, 22
Kisii University student Vennah Kemunto was strangled to death by her 23-year-old boyfriend Samson Obwocha in September 2018 in her hostel room in Kisii County.
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Cynthia Chelagat
Chelagat was in her final year of studying for a Bachelor of Agriculture degree at Egerton University’s Njoro campus when she was killed in February 2018 by being stabbed six times by her boyfriend Edmond Ruto
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Sharon Otieno, 26
Ms Otieno was a second-year student at Rongo University. She was abducted and killed when she was seven months pregnant.
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Beryl Atieno, 28
In February 2019, Paul Ochieng’, 21, who had been living with Form Two student Beryl Atieno, 18, for 10 months at Ober Village, Ndhiwa Sub-County, violently hit her on the head with a table leg and killed her, before hanging himself on the rafters of his house.
However the accused persons and their conspirators are in court, it cannot bring the life of young girls back. Something need to be done. But if you ask me what should be done, I might not be able to give any option because I am still in pain.
Even the media has been tired of these sad stories. I know of a The Vera Beauty college girl who was raped, killed, chopped off her hands and legs inside her mother's house by a man she rejected and no media has highlighted this.
Anyway....
Sad state of affairs, we are be becoming a society where disputes are resolved via violence
ReplyDeleteHow should we improve this?
DeleteI feel you my brother. These love related killings are really worrying something need to be done. I also blame it on the current hard economic times
ReplyDeleteWhere did true love go to?
DeleteI have no idea either, especially after Wangechi who was stabbed 17 times by her spouse withdrew the case against her family's wish. These issues leave a lot to be desired.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it was true love
DeleteThinking we need to adopt healthy communication and reduce expectations
ReplyDeleteSure, people are putting expectations too high, that when they are not met they end up committing a crime
DeleteThat means the concept of "LOVE" is utterly misunderstood....If I truly love you, I will not do anything that will hurt you...Instead, your happiness will be my concern....If you think leaving me makes you happy, so be it...Go in peace... I will move on with life... BUT unfortunately the pain of rejection and the feeling of betrayal drive people to bring out their evil sides.... We should go back and learn how our ancestors handled relationships... The greatest challenge today, perhaps, is the commercialization of "love" where one partner is milked dry then left hanging.... ! Our young ladies must equally be told that if you know you do not want him, never accept anything to do with him...from the beginning, let it be clear that you are not in it... Young boys must be made to understand that there is life after a rejection...
ReplyDeleteSure. People are over investing in their partners
DeleteThis is worrying my friend...
ReplyDeleteIndeed.
DeleteSomethings are more spiritual than physical...tugange hayo!
ReplyDeleteDo you have a feeling that these are signs of last days?
DeleteI'm not sure these relationships are love driven rather there is more than meets the eye. Having said that, it points to one very fundamental aspect - we've lost morals and values as a society.
ReplyDeleteVery true
DeleteOn this issue my advice to the men , dont over invest in ladies e.g taking her to university before marriage, buying house/land for her, starting a business, taking loans on her or any other regrettable investment. You can buy small clothes not bigger than a table mat . Ladys you are also advised not to take gifts from a man if you know the two of you are going nowhere.
ReplyDeleteUkiachwa achika, PERIOD..
ReplyDeleteMen please share to remove the anger dont suffer inside, ladies if you are not interested in a man dont start an affair of demands without true love
ReplyDeleteIs support 100%
DeleteOh dear this is horifying
ReplyDeleteIt is but this the reality
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